Don’t Let Things Get Old

R. Yaakov Bieler

Parashat Masei, 5768

 

            In Parashat Masai, a verse appears that is understood by RaMBaN[1] as the basis for declaring that there is a positive Tora Commandment for each Jew to reside in the land of Israel.

BaMidbar 33:53

And you will cause the land to be inherited, and you will dwell in it because to you I have Given the land to inherit it.

Which begs the question on a day like today, the first of the nine days leading up to Tisha B’Av: What led us, the Jews, to lose this precious inheritance, first for the 70 years of the Babylonian exile, and then indefinitely with the destruction of the Second Temple by the Romans? 

 

            The beginning of the Tora reading for Tisha B'Av suggests one reason[2] for our current situation vis-à-vis our relationship to the land of Israel:

Devarim 4:25

When you will give birth to children and grandchildren, VeNoshantem Ba’Aretz (and you will become old in the land), and you will cause corruption and you will make idols, the representations of all things, and you will perpetrate evil in the Eyes of the Lord, your God to cause Him to be Angered.

The first portion of the verse seems to describe an idyllic situation. To be able to live continually in the land that was Divinely Promised to our ancestors, to be the progenitors of generation after generation, would appear to be the fulfillment of anyone’s fondest dreams. Yet the very same verse suggests that these very conditions are the inevitable cause of alienation from God and His Ways. Does this mean that the cycles of redemption and exile that we have already experienced in our history, will continue indefinitely since our very success and contentment inevitably sow the seeds of our discontent and malfeasance?

 

            In an essay devoted to the month of Av,[3] R. S.R. Hirsch presents an evocative thesis keyed on the word, “VeNoshantem”, and a Rabbinic interpretation appearing in Sanhedrin 38a, and quoted by RaShI in his commentary on the Tora:

Sanhedrin 38a

Ulla said: He (God) Advanced the exile by two years as compared with the period indicated by VeNoshantem”.

Footnote in Soncino edition of Babylonian Talmud, #6[4]

…The numerical value of “VeNoshantem” (6+50+6+300+50+400+40) is 852. Subtracting two years according to this Aggada, there are 850 years left, which is the length of time between Israel’s entry into Palestine and the destruction of the Temple. The Temple was erected in the 480th year from the Exodus out of Egypt, and it stood for 410 years. Substracting 40 years for the period of their wanderings in the desert, we reach a total of 450 years. That acceleration by two years is here regarded as a “righteous” act since it averted the complete destruction threatened in Devarim 4:26.

R. S.R. Hirsch

The longer that man lives complacently in satisfying circumstances, the more his origins recede into the past, the more readily he forgets his very beginnings and their conditions…

As soon as Israel forgets, as soon as the “aging process” takes its toll, its very existence is jeopardized. Israel becomes estranged form the source of its life if it does not recognize any longer the foundation upon which—since days of old—its mere survival and its prosperity and happiness are anchored…

Why did we become estranged from Him once we were ourselves the rulers of the Land, once we reached our political independence? We grew old, and the image of our closeness to Him became but a vague memory…

VeNoshantem”—From Yashan. Not Zaken. Zaken identifies the human being who has ripened, who has gained the maturity that will increase with the number of years. Yashan in contrast related closely to the somewhat differently vocalized term that signifies “asleep”, is indeed the expression of aging, weakening, progressively losing the strength of body and mind…

 

R. Hirsch’s contention that spiritual danger arises when things appear “old”, boring, unengaging, uninspiring, unchanging and irrelevant, certainly should give us as much pause as concerns regarding other alleged causes for the destruction of the Temples.

 

            A particular interpretation of a verse in the Haftora for Shabbat Rosh Chodesh that was read this weekend[5] emphasizes how the perception of “oldness” is emphatically human rather than Divine:

Yeshayahu 65:17

Behold I have Created new heavens and a new earth, and the former things will not be remembered and will not come to mind.

RaDaK

Due to the great goodness that will be, it will be as if the world will be new and the heavens will be new...

“and the former things will not be remembered”—the earlier troubles.

The heavens and earth will remain objectively the same, in effect always “new” from God’s Perspective. Whether or not they are perceived by man as new or old, is a function of the quality of life that people enjoy or remember at any given time, rather than some factual aspect of the natural universe. Such an understanding supports the theological supposition that whereas God, Who is constant and unchanging, can relate to his Creation from a similar perspective, man, due to his intrinsic mortality, is hyperconscious of change; just as he is highly aware of his own birth, growth and eventual death, so too he projects such a frame of reference upon his environment and all that he encounters.

 

       An additional manifestation of the “newness-oldness” theme lies at the heart of a well-known verse in Yirmiyahu, just prior to the beginning of the Haftora for Parashat Masei:[6] 

Yirmiyahu 2:2

Go and call in the ears of Jerusalem saying: So Says HaShem—I Remember the Compassion of your youth, the love of your wedding, your following after me in the desert, in a land that was not cultivated.

 

The implication of the prophet’s words are that whereas God “Remembers” the earlier days of the devotion, faith and commitment of the Jewish people when they first left Egypt and entered the unknown desert, the same cannot be said of the people themselves who have seemed to have forgotten “the old days”. They have become detached from their history and therefore must be treated in a different manner from those who assumed a different attitude during the early days of Jewish history.[7]

 

Thinking about the importance of maintaining a sense of novelty and freshness in one’s religious pursuits, has shed light in my mind upon a Rabbinic statement that I had always understood in a particular manner. The Talmud records a metaphor employed by an Amora to describe a particular phenomenon:

Kiddushin 30a

Said R. Yehoshua ben Levi: Whomever teaches his grandchild Tora, it is considered as if he received it from Mt. Sinai, as it is said: (Devarim 4:9) “…And you will make them known to your children and your grandchildren”, and juxtaposed next to it, (Ibid. 10) “The day that you stood before the Lord, your God in Chorev...”

I had always assumed that this insight had to do with the perception of the young student when he has the great merit to study with someone from an earlier generation. It would seem that he is linking up with the past, to a Masoret (tradition) that stems back all the way to Sinai. However, there is an additional dimension to R. Yehoshua ben Levi’s comment in light of  our current ruminations, i.e., the grandparent will also gain the opportunity to perceive the Tora that he may think he knows so well, from a new perspective, as if it is being given again at Sinai, through the eyes of someone who is unfamiliar with the traditions and ideas that the older individual may have come to take for granted.

 

            How one teaches the young brings to mind a haunting passage from a novella that is set in a Jewish day school. The author is describing a type of time warp experienced by an educator who has worked with the same age group of children for an extended period of time:

Cynthia Ozick, The Cannibal Galaxy [8]

His condition was immortality…

Year after year it was the same, the first graders so tender mouthed and little, the eighth grade girls exploded into puberty…in the long procession down the glowing hill spring after spring after spring. Nothing moved. Nothing altered. The first grade was always the first grade, the eighth grade always the eighth. This knowledge turned him cold; it was the coldness of the cosmos itself. The same, the same, the same…

Nature replaces, replaces identically, replaces chillingly.

It would seem to be fair to say that this is a description of someone who sees everything as Yashan, and has never become a Zakein, in the best sense of the word. Rather than seizing on the opportunity to constantly see newness through the eyes of his young students, he has concluded that it is drearily always the same. Instead of something hot and vital, the experience leaves him cold and enervated. The image summons up pity and missed opportunity.

 

            An experience similar to studying with one’s grandchild often occurs when one learns with a Ba’al Teshuva or a Geir. Particularly when one is interacting with an adult who has a mature understanding of life and its challenges, the teacher has to often reevaluate what he himself has always assumed, ideas that he himself has acquired during his youth and which he may not have revisited despite his own growth and development. For this reason R. Avi Weiss has insisted that instead of referring to such interactions as “Kiruv” (trying to bring the initiate “closer” to where the teacher is situated), a more appropriate term would be “encounter”, i.e., the two sides encounter one another’s points of view to the mutual benefit of each.

 

            While it is easier to insert a sense of newness into religious ideas and practice when having to explain them to a novice, that should not dissuade us from attempting to assume a similar stance even when we are only relating to ourselves while practicing our Judaism day after day, month after month, year after year. Perhaps the paradigm for such an approach is found in the laws of the Pesach Seder:

Shulchan Aruch, Orech Chayim 473:7

The second cup is diluted immediately in order that the children should ask, “Why is a second cup (of wine) being drunk before the meal?”[9] And if the child does not possess wisdom, his father should teach him. And if he does not have a child, his wife should ask him. And if not, he should ask himself. Even scholars should ask one another.

 

While one could view asking questions at the Seder as part of a ritual, to the extent that the questions are genuine attempts at understanding something that seems curious, the process guarantees that fresh looks at that which has been familiar will be taken.

 

            The assumption that it is important that a sense of newness accompany our religious practices has significantly informed how we have structured services at KMS. The populist approach that assumes that there should be multiple Minyanim, that different individuals should deliver Divrei Tora and be Shluchei Tzibbur is premised on the idea that each person will bring his own perspective, approach and interpretation to the task at hand. Such a variety in turn will hopefully suggest to our congregants new ways to approach their religious observances. However, each of us has to also apply our own considerable efforts to retain a sense of freshness and engagement, rather than exclusively relying upon others to inspire and engage us. No one can really say Sh’ma on our behalves; we have to be self-reliant when it comes to reciting the Amida. Even if the Tora is read well, the degree to which we listen and understand is very much our own responsibility.

 

Finally, whether it is a matter of how to view living in the Land of Israel, looking at the natural world around us, reflecting on the experience of teaching Tora to others, or simply reflecting from time to time on our religious practices and texts, a few lines by Bob Dylan can serve as our mantra:

 

Ah, but I was so much older then,

I’m younger than that now.[10]

 

 



[1]Mitzot Aseh LeDa’at HaRaMBaN #4 (addendum to RaMBaM, Sefer HaMitzot, Mitzvot Aseh.

“That we are commanded to inherit the land that Exalted God Gave to our fathers to Avraham, Yitzchak and Yaakov , and to not allow it to remain in the hands of those aside from ourselves, and He Said to them, ‘And you will cause the land to be inherited, and you will dwell in it because to you I have Given the land to inherit it’…” 

[2] Various hypotheses are advanced in Rabbinic literature for the destructions of the Temples and the exile of the Jewish people from its land, e.g.,(Yoma 9b)  overt sinning with regard to cardinal transgressions, i.e., idolatry, murder, sexual impropriety, as well as needless hatred, defined by Chafetz Chayim in the introduction to his work Sefer Chafetz Chaim, as Lashon HaRa; (Bava Metzia 30b) failure to act in accordance with going beyond the letter of the law. The various possibilities that are advanced suggest that there was no single behavior or attitude that precipitated these calamities, but rather there a complex combination of detrimental factors combined to spell the end of Jewish hegemony in Israel. On the other hand, identifying such contributory conditions allows us to focus upon those aspects of our own contemporary Jewish society that are in need of improvement, in order to merit our restoration to the Land and the rebuilding of the Temple.

[3]Av IV” in The Collected Writings of Rabbi Samson Raphael Hirsch, Vol. 1, The Jewish Year, Part One, Nissan-Av, Philipp Feldheim, New York, 1984, pp. 373-8.

[4] The Babylonian Talmud: Seder Nezikin in four volumes, III, trans. under editorship of R. I Epstein, The Soncino Press, London, 1935, p. 239.

[5] There are actually two customs regarding which Haftora to read on Shabbat Rosh Chodesh that occurs during the three week lead up to Tisha B’Av. While some congregations read from Yeshayahu 65, the Haftora that is typically read on Shabbat Rosh Chodesh, others read the regular Haftora for Parashat Masei from Yirmiyahu 2.

[6] The Haftora begins with Yirmiyahu 2:4.

[7] In light of the numerous sins of the Jewish people beginning immediately after the Exodus and culminating with the decree following the sin of the Spies that the entire generation that left Egypt would die out during 40 years of wandering in the desert, is God overly “Romanticizing” about the past in this verse, so to speak?

[8] Syracuse U. Press, 1983, p. 45

[9] Typically, even on days when Kiddush is recited, only one cup would be consumed prior to the meal.

[10] Bob Dylan, “My Back Pages” in The Yale Book of Quotations, ed. Fred R. Shapiro, Yale U. Press, New Haven, 2006, p. 223.